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Afterlife Phil G shares his mailbag to help Lisa from Britain to connect with her father in the Afterlife: “I lost my father, I sense him near, but my thoughts are so mixed up I can’t actually know if it’s his thoughts or mine…”

“Sensing contact with the afterlife doesn’t mean you can easily understand or believe the contact is real or clear, especially if it’s someone very close to you - you need to find a way to verify things the contact is real, and not just imagined.”

I had the same problem and it’s why I developed my simple technique. (Accidentally, as visitors to my website on life after death). Firstly, if you sense him around, then he’s with you. I know some would say that’s being nave, but it’s true and you can prove it yourself.

I assume you’re past the stage of believing in being able to contact the afterlife so I’ll go to knowing the difference between your own words and thoughts, and those of someone who’s ‘talking’ to you from ‘the other side’. The first step, even if you’re aware of a connection, is to relax. Like a very deep meditation.

The tools I make available include: the YouTube video “CoffeeTime”, The Poem “Don’t Grieve” (page 3 on the website), the “ABC of connecting” (on Page 7 of the website), and then of course the Book or Audio guides page. I suggest these because they all contain what I believe is the important steps to getting clarification.

In order to get clear detail or feeling is to make a difference between the thoughts in your head, and the thoughts being PLACED in your head. One key is to not ask for or expect specific thoughts, or ’signs’, but to accept whatever comes through (or not). Maybe you won’t get what you’re expecting, but slowly, you will clearly get things. And it gets easier the more you do this.

The reason you need to relax and let go is so that any random thought can come in. When you are aware of things, and your mind is switched on, you think things through too much, you analyse too much, and that stops the flow of information. It’s like asking someone’s advice, and then thinking your own thoughts and not listening - you won’t hear them, you’ll only hear your own thoughts. You may not get what you want right now, but you’ll get things, and it gets easier.

Lastly, you want to confirm what you got was not just your own thoughts, and my personal suggestion is to ask for something you don’t know, or something you’re forgotten. Something you don’t know can be any random thing. In my wife’s case, the final ‘proof’ she needed to verify I was sharing messages from her father was an image I saw of a round cylinder containing a bunch of pens and pencils, being knocked to the ground. I had not seen her office, did not know she had pens and pencils in a container like that (she doesn’t at home), and she had in fact knocked it off the desk that day.

In my book ‘Soul Matters - you can talk with those you miss’ I talk about my Nanna coming through one evening. (She passed away when I was about 7) She showed me a scone on a plate. I had no idea what this meant, until I heard her voice say “don’t you remember the scones?” - then I remembered. I had asked my mum over and over to make scones like my Nanna (The British make scones much better than Aussies do!) I had completely forgotten that.

So ask those two questions, and trust whatever is brought through will make sense, and verify your connection. You see, it’s not so much as you need to know HOW to connect, but how to clarify what you’re getting, and although the steps I’ve listed do both, in your case, concentrate on those little differences between just ‘feeling he’s near’ and ‘asking for verification’.

I hope this works for you. Tell me how you get on in a few months by using the feedback link on the website (philg.net.au). I’m sure you’ll get the clarity and proof you desire.

Phil G